BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

Maintaining a relationship is one of the most difficult tests that couples often failed. There is no secret formula or shortcut to maintain a lasting relationship. Even great men and women in our history failed in this game. However, allow me to suggest some pointers that works based on my research and my experienced too. DON’T PLAY A GAME Relationships are not a game. Repeat, not a game. It is not a win-loss situation. There are relationships that last an average of several years . When you are serious in a relationship, breaking up for whatever reason should never be on top of the menu. It has always been communicating and getting past the emotions so that issues can be logically sorted out before coming to any decision or course of action. Never enter a movie house and immediately look for the nearest exit. FIGHT THE FIRE RATHER THAN ESCAPE IT If you are logical-thinking individuals and that, while there may be hormonal moments that aggravate otherwise simple incidents, try to process it fast in your heads before getting carried away. What I mean here, is both of you should sort out the problems in an “educated” way. Never resort to cheaper means like violence or physically hurting each other. Remember, you cannot correct a mistake with another mistake. RESPECT EACH OTHER There must be the respect between the two of you. Respect is very simple word but many couples do not understand its true meaning. If love turns to lies, then there is no reason to maintain the relationship. The golden rule is, do not do unto others what you do not want others do unto you. COMMIT YOURSELF TO EACH OTHER If you intend to keep your relationship lasts, then you must commit yourself to each other. Always find time and space to spend together even if it is a simple hello. They say that the differences are what attract one to the other, while the similarities are what keep a couple together in the longer run. But, honestly, you can’t really measure a foolproof formula in choosing a lifelong partner. Fate often wills its own way. STAND FIRM AMIDST CHALLENGES This is the ultimate test. This is test that will finally define your relationships. It’s a make or break, a do or die, a knockout game. They say that love conquers all. That is, if the love existing between the two of you is genuine, sincere, unconditional and worth dying for. So there you are, simple rules that can may work to all of us. By tonytolentino