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Hi, I think that it is great that you continue being friends with her. There is absolutely no problem to see her and talk to her and be friends with her but on the relationship side, I think you should keep it open for someone else. It doesn't seem like you like her in the way of dating. Not every friendship has to be a relationship. You can be friends but don't let yourself go to just wanting a girlfriend. Live your life, have lots of friends and when the one you want comes, you will start to get the butterflies in your stomach for the one. I see that she is coming on Monday, I say let her know how you feel. Tell her you want to be friends with her and continue but you don't want to label your friendship with a relationship. Hope this helps! Please come back if you need to.
Ok, so I started talking to this girl, and after about a month, she took the time and wrote me a 3 page letter on how she felt about me and how I stole her heart, how amazing I was, and how she was falling for me. Basically really really liked me. But about 2 months later all of a sudden things started changing. She started to act kinda disinterested, basically not getting to see her at all. Then out of the blue, she texts me saying can we just wait until I get older, until I turn 16. She's telling me, she's not gonna get to see me and bla, bla, bla, and that she loves me and she don't want me to forget her. About two weeks after the split she gets with another guy telling him "Forever" that she's in love with him...etc. I just wanna know what you think about what's goin on? Can feelings just change like that or do you think she still likes me and shes just with another guy. And also, I'm 17 she's about to be 15 and I'm about be 18, we did try to date and I did have the same feelings she had for me. What do y'all think? Maybe, what could I do to make her want me again? What do you think I should do? Thanks
So, my Ex-Girlfriend's birthday is coming up soon, on July 8th. I was wondering if I should tell her Happy Birthday or not even tell her. I was thinking about messaging her on Facebook but she unfriended me so, I mean I can still message her, but I would feel like I would be coming on to strong. Then I thought maybe, I could tell her cousin who I'm friends with to tell her that I said Happy Birthday for me, so I won't have to message her. I do want her back, so what is the best thing you think I should do? Thanks Sandy.
I sent her this "Happy Birthday, Carson. I hope it's a great one! And she replied with "Thank you, Jordan Alexanderr" Was this a good message and a good response from her? And should I send her a friend request, or do you think now is not a good time?
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ReplyDeleteI think that it is great that you continue being friends with her. There is absolutely no problem to see her and talk to her and be friends with her but on the relationship side, I think you should keep it open for someone else. It doesn't seem like you like her in the way of dating. Not every friendship has to be a relationship. You can be friends but don't let yourself go to just wanting a girlfriend. Live your life, have lots of friends and when the one you want comes, you will start to get the butterflies in your stomach for the one. I see that she is coming on Monday, I say let her know how you feel. Tell her you want to be friends with her and continue but you don't want to label your friendship with a relationship. Hope this helps! Please come back if you need to.
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ReplyDeleteOk, so I started talking to this girl, and after about a month, she took the time and wrote me a 3 page letter on how she felt about me and how I stole her heart, how amazing I was, and how she was falling for me. Basically really really liked me. But about 2 months later all of a sudden things started changing. She started to act kinda disinterested, basically not getting to see her at all. Then out of the blue, she texts me saying can we just wait until I get older, until I turn 16. She's telling me, she's not gonna get to see me and bla, bla, bla, and that she loves me and she don't want me to forget her. About two weeks after the split she gets with another guy telling him "Forever" that she's in love with him...etc. I just wanna know what you think about what's goin on? Can feelings just change like that or do you think she still likes me and shes just with another guy. And also, I'm 17 she's about to be 15 and I'm about be 18, we did try to date and I did have the same feelings she had for me. What do y'all think? Maybe, what could I do to make her want me again? What do you think I should do? Thanks
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ReplyDeleteSo, my Ex-Girlfriend's birthday is coming up soon, on July 8th. I was wondering if I should tell her Happy Birthday or not even tell her. I was thinking about messaging her on Facebook but she unfriended me so, I mean I can still message her, but I would feel like I would be coming on to strong. Then I thought maybe, I could tell her cousin who I'm friends with to tell her that I said Happy Birthday for me, so I won't have to message her. I do want her back, so what is the best thing you think I should do? Thanks Sandy.
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ReplyDeleteTelling you how it went Sandy!
ReplyDeleteI sent her this "Happy Birthday, Carson. I hope it's a great one! And she replied with "Thank you, Jordan Alexanderr" Was this a good message and a good response from her? And should I send her a friend request, or do you think now is not a good time?